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RESOURCES

Helpful Links

  • Adoption Council of Ontario. This is an excellent resource for how-to, courses, and trainings. 
  • Interwoven An Ontario-based adoptive parent association offering support, advocacy & information to families pre/post adoption  
  • Adoption Licensees. A list of approved private licensees.  
  • Pathways to Permanence 2: This is a 24-hour course for adoptive families parenting children who have experienced trauma and loss. We strongly recommend this course for all adoptive parents.  
  • Ministry of Children, Community and Social Services: Adoption information about the adoption process, lists of practitioners/agencies/licensees etc in Ontario.  
  • Circle of Security: Parent Resources This is an attachment based parenting course.  
  • Parental leave for adoptive parents. A government site explaining eligibility for parental leave.  

Financial Resources

  • Employee Benefits: Some benefit packages include coverage for counselling by social workers or possibly even adoption expenses. As I am a registered social worker, you may be able to submit a claim for renumeration.  
  • Adoption Tax Credit: You are able to claim eligible adoption expenses incurred when you adopt a child who is under 18 at the time. You may only submit the claim however in the year the adoption is completed. The maximum claim for each child is $16,729 as of 2025.
  • Ontario Permanency Funding: Domestic and kinship adoptions may be eligible for this funding. Please ask the children's worker or review this site.  
  • Banks: Some banks offer loans specifically for adoptions. One example is https://www.nbc.ca/personal/borrowing/adoption.html (This is not an endorsement). 
  • Parental Leave Benefits: You may be eligible for this entitlement of 35 weeks which can be taken by either one or both of you.  
  • A Child Waits Foundation: A website where adoptive families can apply to receive grants for both domestic and intercountry adoption. Open to both Canadian and American citizens.  

Books

This is a resource only. A listing on this page does not necessarily imply that a particular book is being recommended or that all content in books is aligned with current adoption practices and beliefs within Ontario. 


  • Nurturing Adoptions : Creating Resilience After Neglect and Trauma - Deborah Gray 
  • Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents - Deborah Gray 
  • Attaching Through Love, Hugs and Play: Simple Strategies to Help Build Connections with Your Child - Deborah Gray 
  • Tree of Strangers - Barbara Summer 
  • Trauma, Attachment and Family Permanence: Fear Can Stop You Loving - Daniel Hughes 
  •  What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing - Bruce Perry & Oprah Winfrey 
  • Who Am I Really? - Damon Davis 
  • What to Expect When You’re Adopting - Dr. Ian Palmer 
  • NoBODY Looks Like Me: An Adoptee Experience - Lora K. Joy 
  • You Don’t Look Adopted - Anne Heffron 
  • The Whole Life Adoption Book: Realistic Advice for Building a Healthy Adoptive Family - Thomas Atwood & Jayne Schooler 
  • Twice a Daughter: A Search for Identity, Family, and Belonging - Julie McGue 
  • Circle of Security Intervention - Powell, Cooper Ma, Hoffman Reid, Marvin, & Zeanah 
  • T.I.P.S.: Time In Parenting Strategies - Otto Wieninger 
  • Adopting On Your Own: The Complete Guide to Adoption for Single Parents - Lee Varon 
  • Making Sense of Adoption: A Parent’s Guide - Lois Ruskai Melina 
  • Parenting from the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive - Siegel & Hartzell 
  • The Ultimate Insider's Guide to Adoption: Everything You Need to Know About Domestic and International Adoption - Elizabeth Swire Falker 
  • Honestly Adoption: Answers to 101 Questions About Adoption and Foster Care - Mike and Kristen Berry 
  • Hello, I Love You: Adventures in Adoptive Fatherhood - Ted Kluck  
  • Another Place at the Table: A Story of Shattered Childhoods Redeemed by Love - Kathy Harrison 
  • What White Parents Should Know about Transracial Adoption: An Adoptee's Perspective on Its History, Nuances, and Practices - Melissa Guida-Richards  
  • Black Baby White Hands: A View from the Crib - Jaiya John 
  • Inside Transracial Adoption: Strength-based, Culture-sensitizing Parenting Strategies for Inter-country or Domestic Adoptive Families That Don't "Match" - Gail Steinberg & Beth Hall 
  • In Their Own Voices: Transracial Adoptees Tell Their Stories - Rhonda Roorda & Rita James Simon 
  • Being Adopted: The Lifelong Search for Self - David Brodzinsky, Marshall Schechter & Robin Marantz Henig 
  • Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew - Sherrie Eldridge 
  • The Post-Adoption Blues: Overcoming the Unforseen Challenges of Adoption - Karen Foli & John Thompson 
  • Modern Families: Parents and Children in New Family Forms - Susan Golombok 
  • The Open-Hearted Way to Open Adoption: Helping Your Child Grow Up Whole - Lori Holden 
  • Adopting: Sound Choices, Strong Families - Patricia Irwin Johnston 
  • Adoption is a Family Affair! What Relatives and Friends Must Know - Patricia Irwin Johnston 
  • The Open Adoption Experience: A Complete Guide for Adoptive and Birth Families - Lois Ruskai Melina 
  • Raising Adopted Children: Practical Reassuring Advice for Every Adoptive Parent - Lois Ruskai Melina 
  • While We Wait Spiritual and Practical Advice for Those Trying to Adopt - Heidi Schlumpf 
  • Labor of the Heart: A Parent’s Guide to Decisions and Emotion in Adoption - Kathleen Whitten
  • A Love-Stretched Life - Jillana Goble  
  • Adoption, It’s Worth It! - Kimberly Purnell Moody 
  • Adopting Alyosha - Robert Klose 
  • Extraordinary: Stories of Adopting Children with Down Syndrome - Cady Driver 
  • The Seven Core Issues Workbook for Parents of Traumatized Children and Teens - Allison Maxon & Sharon Roszia 
  • Raising My Brother’s Child - Scott Hilton 
  • Adoption Memoirs - Marianne Novy 
  • Adoption Unfiltered - Sara Easterly, Kelsey Vander Vliet Reynard, & Lori Holden 
  • Found: Adopted Friends Search for Their Birth Families - Trish Diggins & Sherri Craig-Evans 

Podcasts and YouTube

  • “Flipping your lid”. An explanation of what is happening in the brain when we lose emotional control. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5CpRY9-MIHA 
  • Babies’ Bodies Remember Separation Trauma https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Y0CzLv1Iiw  
  • Opening Up Adoption, A Radio One Podcast (January 2019) https://www.cbc.ca/radio/outintheopen/opening-up-adoption-1.4984888
  • Creating a Family Podcast: https://creatingafamily.org/radio-show/  
  • Long Lost Family. A UK based series about adoptees and birth families seeking each other. https://www.youtube.com/show/SCOVukD_yjV9pdzTxFnTjOUg?season=13&sbp=CgIxMw%253D%253D 
  • Road to Permanency Podcast: https://www.permanency.ca/podcast 
  • Adoption: The Making of Me Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/adoption-the-making-of-me-an-oral-history-of-adoptee-stories/id1565403354 
  • Adoption Now Podcast: https://adoptionnowpodcast.com/ 
  • Adoption in Focus Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/131TYTnxyMNWgWt42RGrE7 
  • Our Adoption Stories Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/6fhBE3IcHyq76rq1xAkPwu?si=5ae51af5332e4d73&nd=1&dlsi=4b07cb73a1194d99 


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